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Second Life Stuff
About Me and This Blog: What the dickens is this all about?
My Rules for Second Life: Shouldn't everybody be doing this?
Anonymity and Total Freedom: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" -Mary Oliver (b 1935), American poet
Ballroom Dancing and Relationships: D/s, BDMS, even Marriage: Life is a dance.
Mindf*cking: It's not just about sex, it's about making an erotic connection.
Role Play or Reality?: Somebody was confused by my politeness. Am I a Dom or a Sub?
Second Life is a "literary" environment: I write. You write. We all write.
Second Life Profiles: Our profile is our calling card.
On the Internet, Nobody Knows You're a Dog.: For the most part, we're equal.
Second Life Drama: I come to have fun. You?
Aggressive Males and the Stupidity of Inexperience: Wanna f*ck?
The S Word: As a man, I will not use this.
Self-Confidence: I Know I’m Good: I don't think I'm good; I know I'm good.
I'm a man: I'm not role playing a character; I'm just being me.
Doxing: What the f*ck do you think you're doing?: Don't reveal secrets!
Sex Furniture: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly: It's tough finding the right animation.
Male Genitalia in Second Life: All men are born eunuchs.
Avatar Height: SL size = RL size times 1.25 but some people want SL = RL.
True Doms in Second Life: A 2011 video sparks an article about D/s.
My Rule of the Three Rights: Anything is possible!
Compersion: not thinking of yourself: Focusing on your partner, not yourself.
For the uninitiated: What the heck is Second Life?: Explaining the color red to a blind person.
Second Life Magnifies Real Life: In a virtual world, things can be more intense.
Friends List: To clear or not to clear? That is the question.: What to do with absent friends?
Love Made in Second Life: A 2019-2020 YouTube series about RL couples who met in SL.
Why do guys role play girls?: 10% of RL is gay. But there is a higher percentage of lesbians in SL.
What's my survival rate?: Two friends are diagnosed with cancer.
What's my RP?: role player, immersionist, or augmentationist?
Less Critical, More Compassionate: We're all in this together.
Second Life: Still interesting after all these years?: Why do I, or any of us for that matter, keep coming back?
Second Life: We're not going to meet in Real Life.: Like Las Vegas, what happens in SL stays in SL.
In SL, I can be anybody I want to be. And I choose... Wait! What?: Why did we choose our avatar?
Musings on the Psychology of Second Life: People seem to be far more sexual in Second Life than in Real Life.
My Love-Hate Relationship With Second Life: I love it. I hate it. It's complicated.
I make mistakes. Am I man enough to admit it?: Sometimes, I piss people off.
Your fantasy is not my fantasy, but I accept it anyway.: Raceplay is a fantasy, not racism.
Heteroflexible: Not Bi But Dabbling: Katie Perry (2008): I kissed a girl and I like it.
Wanna f*ck? - Being polite: It's free and adds nothing to the overall cost.: Nuff said!
A Constant State of Arousal: Are we all secretly edging?
Can fantasy ever become reality?: I'll never be as cool as James Bond.
Multi-task or one-on-one: They can both work depending on the circumstances.: Quantity vs quality.
Do Not Engage!: Sometimes, the best course of action is to just walk away.
Primfeed, Social Media Platforms, and Censorship: What risks do any of us run by (inadvertently) violating the Terms of Service?
Facebook, Flickr: You can't beat the system.: “The strong do what they can, the weak suffer what they must.”
Second Life and Politics: I'm apolitical. I come to SL to live my second life, not my real life.
The Premise: If you can't accept it, nothing else works.: If you can't accept Superman has superpowers, Clark Kent doesn't make any sense.
Linden Lab's Terms of Service: We're all going to jail!: In your limits, you say you won't violate the TOS. So what does the TOS say?
I have a story to tell, and it may very well be a doozy!: An illusion in an illusion.
I want to f*ck you in the a**. Wait! What?: Bad behavior needs to be called. Quit being a jackass!
Second Life: My Pet Peeves: the graphics are clunky; the lag is annoying; and the experience is frustrating.

Psychology
What's up with high heels?: What science says about our attraction to this footwear.
Breasts: Why are we so fascinated, if not obsessed?: What science says about mammary glands. I'm not a lecher! It's science!

Erotic Stuff
A Kiss Is Just A Kiss: Some erotic thoughts. "A life without passion is a slow way to freeze to death."
Sayings: Sunccintly put
Axel and Romina: Bachata Zouk: Dancing: vertical sex. YouTube 3:57
I never touch you: Through SL, we communicate and interact with other people but we never physically touch.
Erotic Love: What do men and women really want?
Erotic Thoughts: We all have 'em.
Power Play: A lingerie ad as an erotic video: YouTube 3:52
Anaïs Nin: I do not want to be the leader: I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness.
A Lady and Her Boudoir: How could I refuse a private fashion show?
To Be Desired: John Berger: It makes us feel immortal.

Technical Stuff
Malware: How to Practice Safe Computing: None of us want to end up with an infected computer.
Flickr: What is the risk of having my account terminated?: If we flaunt the rules, we could be summarily terminated.
Message Capping, Email, and Limitations : Messages, including Notescards, are capped at 15. Everything else is thrown away.
Gyazo: a permanent alternative to Tumblr and Imgur? : Tumblr and Imgur may delete what they consider inappropriate.
The Feed, My Second Life, and a corner of SL I think many don't know exists: The Feed: an underutilized part of SL.
Permissions: See my online status: Did you know?: You may not be as hidden as you think you are.

Funny Stuff
Second Life: Ha, ha, ha!: An ad agency produces a one minute video, recreating SL in real life and the results are hilarious.
Some Funny Images (NSFW): Not safe for work, exclamation mark.
One Panel Stories: An intriguing and creative premise.
A summary of what might to happen to you in Second Life.: Points about the SL experience.
Naughty?: A filmmaker has quite the sense of humour.

Miscellaneous
To Blog Or Not To Blog: I posted erotic pictures on newTumbl. It shut down. Now what?
Movie Review: Good Luck to You, Leo Grande: Let's hope we all find passion in our lives.
Dr. Maitland Meets Nurse Carling: An Erotic Story by H. Q. Toussaint (6,000 words, 20 minute read)