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Second Life Stuff
About: What the dickens is this all about?
My Rules for Second Life: Shouldn't everybody be doing this?
Anonymity and Total Freedom: "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" -Mary Oliver (b 1935), American poet
Ballroom Dancing and Relationships: D/s, BDMS, even Marriage: Life is a dance.
Mindf*cking: It's not just about sex, it's about making an erotic connection.
Role Play or Reality?: Somebody was confused by my politeness. Am I a Dom or a Sub?
Second Life is a "literary" environment: I write. You write. We all write.
Second Life Profiles: Our profile is our calling card.
On the Internet, Nobody Knows You're a Dog: For the most part, we're equal.
Second Life Drama: I come to have fun. You?
Aggressive Males and the Stupidity of Inexperience: Wanna f*ck?
The S Word: As a man, I will not use this.
Self-Confidence: I Know I’m Good: I don't think I'm good; I know I'm good.
I'm a man: I'm not role playing a character; I'm just being me.
Doxing: What the f*ck do you think you're doing?: Don't reveal secrets!
Sex Furniture: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly: It's tough finding the right animation.
Male Genitalia in Second Life: All men are born eunuchs.
Avatar Height: SL size = RL size times 1.25 but some people want SL = RL.
True Doms in Second Life: A 2011 video sparks an article about D/s.
My Rule of the Three Rights: Anything is possible!
Compersion: not thinking of yourself: Focusing on your partner, not yourself.
For the uninitiated: What the heck is Second Life?: Explaining the color red to a blind person.
Second Life Magnifies Real Life: In a virtual world, things can be more intense.
Friends List: To clear or not to clear? That is the question.: What to do with absent friends?
Love Made in Second Life: A 2019-2020 YouTube series about RL couples who met in SL.
Why do guys role play girls?: 10% of RL is gay. But there is a higher percentage of lesbians in SL.
What's my survival rate?: Two friends are diagnosed with cancer.
What's my RP?: role player, immersionist, or augmentationist?
Less Critical, More Compassionate: We're all in this together.
Second Life: Still interesting after all these years?: Why do I, or any of us for that matter, keep coming back?
Second Life: We're not going to meet in Real Life.: Like Las Vegas, what happens in SL stays in SL.
In SL, I can be anybody I want to be. And I choose... Wait! What?: Why did we choose our avatar?
Musings on the Psychology of Second Life: People seem to be far more sexual in Second Life than in Real Life.
My Love-Hate Relationship With Second Life: I love it. I hate it. It's complicated.

Erotic Stuff
A Kiss Is Just A Kiss: Some erotic thoughts. "A life without passion is a slow way to freeze to death."
Sayings: Sunccintly put
Axel and Romina: Bachata Zouk: Dancing: vertical sex. YouTube 3:57
I never touch you: Through SL, we communicate and interact with other people but we never physically touch.
Erotic Love: What do men and women really want?
Erotic Thoughts: We all have 'em.
Power Play: A lingerie ad as an erotic video: YouTube 3:52
Anaïs Nin: I do not want to be the leader: I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness.
A Lady and Her Boudoir: How could I refuse a private fashion show?
To Be Desired: John Berger: It makes us feel immortal.

Technical Stuff
Malware: How to Practice Safe Computing: None of us want to end up with an infected computer.
Flickr: What is the risk of having my account terminated?: If we flaunt the rules, we could be summarily terminated.
Message Capping, Email, and Limitations : Messages, including Notescards, are capped at 15. Everything else is thrown away.
Gyazo: a permanent alternative to Tumblr and Imgur? : Tumblr and Imgur may delete what they consider inappropriate.
The Feed, My Second Life, and a corner of SL I think many don't know exists : The Feed: an underutilized part of SL.

Funny Stuff
Second Life: Ha, ha, ha!: An ad agency produces a one minute video, recreating SL in real life and the results are hilarious.
Some Funny Images (NSFW): Not safe for work, exclamation mark.
One Panel Stories: An intriguing and creative premise.
A summary of what might to happen to you in Second Life.: Points about the SL experience.
Naughty?: A filmmaker has quite the sense of humour.

Miscellaneous
To Blog Or Not To Blog: I posted erotic pictures on newTumbl. It shut down. Now what?
Movie Review: Good Luck to You, Leo Grande: Let's hope we all find passion in our lives.