Saturday 7 December 2019

Yin Yang




Wikipedia: Yin and Yang
In Chinese philosophy, yin & yang, which are often shortened to "yin-yang" or "yin yang", describes how apparently opposite or contrary forces are actually complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world, and how they give rise to each other as they interrelate to one another. Many tangible dualities (such as light and dark, fire and water, and male and female) are thought of as physical manifestations of the duality of yin and yang.

Something to think about: apparently opposite or contrary forces are actually complementary, interconnected, and interdependent.

2019-12-07

Sunday 1 December 2019

A summary of what might to happen to you in Second Life.




I found the following in the profile of Ƶēʍ (zem.aldrin) who says he copied this from Anodyne Darkes (anodyne.darkes).

My apologies to both these people.


A summary of what might to happen to you in Second Life.

You will meet many interesting people.

You will experience the amazing creativity that's found here.

You will have some laughs and good debates.

You will be solicited for sex.

You will develop some strong friendships.

You will lose friends with no warning.

You will spend too much time and $$$ on SL.

You will be in SL when you should be in RL.

You will have a magical time with someone special.

You will get your heart hurt and broken.

You will hurt someone else.

You will survive.

You will be misunderstood and hated.

You will trust the wrong people.

You will repeat something told to you in confidence and someone will get hurt.

You will curse SL and still come back.

You will find your life changed for the worse AND the better.

You will leave...and come back...and leave again...and.......


Some thoughts
I jokingly say that Second Life is like Facebook on steroids. While there are a number of games which are far more popular than SL, such as World of Warcraft, Halo, or Call of Duty, SL remains unique in that it is a "game" with no specific goal. What one does, what goal one achieves, is completely left up to the individual. Create (build), take photos, listen to music, socialize: You can do whatever you want. And you can do it with like-minded people if you look for them.

Many people state in their profile that they keep SL and their RL separate. However, I note that even while we are all in the game, we remain irrevocably our RL mind. That is to say, we always bring part of our RL with us no matter how "immersively" we play the game. As such, when I look at the above points, I see them all as being applicable to Real Life. Second Life is a virtual life, a role play, a fantasy, a made-up scenario, that is, an opportunity to do what we can't do in real life. But who knows? If we had the right circumstances, if we had the right partner, just what could we do in Real Life? I like to say that in SL, our only limitation is our imagination. That could be applied to Real Life.

2019-12-01

Tuesday 26 November 2019

Power Play

A lingerie ad as an erotic video. But who's chasing whom? See you in Room 438.




Power Play from lovecodeTV on Vimeo. Published on Feb 8, 2014 by lovecodeTV
Shot at location Sound Garden Hotel Warszawa http://www.soundgardenhotel.pl
Cast - Magdalena Perlinska & Marcin Twardowski
Story - Ewa & Valmaar
Director - Vamaar
1st Assistant Director - Ewa
Camera - Valmaar
Edit - Valmaar & Ewa
Hair & Make-up - Anna Wójcik
Music - Massive Attack "Angel"





References

web site: Love Code Lingerie
New luxury lingerie brand.

Facebook: Love Code Lingerie
In Lovecode Lingerie, we believe that every woman can feel beautiful and sexy at any time. We think that you can be dressed in sensual lingerie both leaving in the morning for work and in your spare time. You do not need a separate set of underwear to the office and a separate for the bedroom. Lovecode Lingerie guarantees maximum wearing comfort and at the same time will ignite the senses.

In Lovecode Lingerie passionately devote ourselves to creating the highest quality lingerie that being comfortable and functional at the same time gives you maximum confidence because it's super sexy and you know what you wear. You feel that you tread firmly on the ground and it's up to you how this day will roll out ...

All our lingerie products we proudly produce in Poland.






Wikipedia: Angel (Massive Attack song)
"Angel" is a song by English trip hop group Massive Attack. It features lead vocals and songwriting from Horace Andy, and is partially based on Andy's song "You are My Angel". It was released as the third single from their third studio album, Mezzanine (1998), on 13 July 1998. "Angel" peaked at number 30 on the UK Singles Chart.

Published on Mar 6, 2009 by massiveattack
YouTube: Massive Attack - Angel (5:24)


2019-11-26

Monday 11 November 2019

One Panel Stories

An intriguing and creative premise: Take a single panel from a comic strip and change the talk or thought balloon in a way that makes a complete scenario, a one panel story as it were, but with a romantic and/or sexual angle. Let the chuckles ensue.












One panel cartoons have been around since forever, but I found this premise to be novel. And amusing. I have no idea who came up with the idea, or who runs the Pinterest board "One Panel Stories" where I first ran across them, but I did have a good chuckle or two.

2019-11-11

Sunday 10 November 2019

Stuff 2019-11-10

"Sometimes, my desire for you overwhelms me."
Game On by Jack Vettriano (b 1951), Scottish painter




"Woman, the Bliss Queen"
Smuin Ballet featuring Carmina Burana




"Just knowing you crave me is a turn on."
The power of thought




My doctor had a recommendation for my carpal tunnel syndrome.




[Pfffssst!!!!] (sound of me doing a spit take)


2019-11-10

Friday 8 November 2019

Sayings

“A life without passion is a slow way to freeze to death.” -Unknown



“Seduce my mind and you can have my body, find my soul and I'm yours forever.” - Unknown



"Seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do.
It is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.” –Unknown



"A woman is unabashedly expressive with a man who creates a safe space
to explore the private recesses of her soul." -Graham R. White.




"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever.
If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be." –Unknown



2019-11-08

Wednesday 30 October 2019

Erotic Thoughts

Anticipation: There's no feeling quite like it.




The hidden recesses of our minds: What secrets lie therein?




What is the RL mind behind the curtain?




"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet." -Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet




You, me, symbolism.




If I was a butterfly...




I want to paint an erotic work of art, and I want to use your body as my canvas.




Love is in the air.




2019-10-30

Monday 28 October 2019

Some Funny Images (NSFW)


Wow. Is that a Volkswagen convertible?




Do I need a new attachment?




This isn't how I remember the library. Time to renew my card.




I never could understand math. And women. Yes, I never could understand math and women.




I'm guessing this is a joke about boning. See? I do have a sense of humerus.
*facepalm* I can't believe I just said that.




Sometimes, a guy has to know when to keep his mouth shut.




I failed.




A new interpretation of "The Creation of Adam" by Michelangelo



Have yourself a nice day. Keep smiling.

2019-10-28

Thursday 24 October 2019

Malware: How to Practice Safe Computing

Old joke: I practice safe computing. When I play Second Life, I always wear a condom.

Some in Second Life refuse to click on any links in IM chat. They have good reason. Who wants to get their computer infected? While it’s important to install and maintain a good antivirus program, a prudent approach to unknown URLs is to just not click. It’s not worth the risk.

But is there anything we ourselves can do?

Reputation is a good start. Well-known legitimate websites can give us a warm fuzzy that we’re not going to unleash the hounds of hell. Legitimate also includes pornography. Porn sites have long been known as a harbour for the malicious, baddies taking advantage of our insatiable curiosity and all-round horniness when we throw caution to the wind and blindly click on the promisingly scandalous. Bingo! You now have to pay a ransom to get your files back!

However, the top porn sites, such as xHamster and Pornhub are running for-profit businesses based on advertising. They would be shooting themselves in the foot big time if they allowed malware into their presentations. These days, it would seem you have to dig way down into out of the way niche porn sites to find malware embedded in the site itself.

Malvertising
I use the McAfee antivirus system but have in the past used Sophos and Norton. These systems can filter web pages, examining individual elements, namely advertising embedded on the page.

Legitimate sites like CNN, The Washington Post, etc., can get advertising from 3rd party providers. If you see a box in a corner of the page, or a pop-up, it may contain an advertisement. That ad didn’t come from the site, it came from a service which provides ads to the site. The advertiser may embed malicious code in the ad, give it the 3rd party provider, and Bingo! You have a legitimate site serving up malware to your computer.

Lesson to be learned: In this day and age, getting malware is no longer just connected to surfing dubious sites like porn. It could be any site, even sites you trust.

Can we trust anybody?
Let’s not forget that “virus” as in computer virus is named after the human virus. It has the same characteristics. I drop in for a family dinner, holiday or birthday, and somebody coughs or sneezes. A few days later, I know I’ve got something. Cough, wheeze.

It’s important, first and foremost, to have an antivirus system. I have McAfee because it was bundled with a new Dell laptop, I purchased last year. Reviewing PC Mag’s top-ten systems, I know that McAfee is good. It certainly isn’t a mistake, and we can argue over the details.

One of its features is to compare any link to its own list of questionable URLs. If I click or if a web page automatically sends me somewhere, McAfee will stop the process and give me a warning, asking me if I want to proceed. I avoid any chance of malware by just not continuing.

What can I do?
Before visiting any website, it is possible to pass the URL through an online checking system to find out if there’s any risk.

Google Transparency Report
https://transparencyreport.google.com/safe-browsing/search
Google’s Safe Browsing technology examines billions of URLs per day looking for unsafe websites. Every day, we discover thousands of new unsafe sites, many of which are legitimate websites that have been compromised. When we detect unsafe sites, we show warnings on Google Search and in web browsers. You can search to see whether a website is currently dangerous to visit.

Type in a URL and see what’s reported. The site info gives you the latest status about “unsafe content” and tells you when Google last checked the site.

Virus Total
https://www.virustotal.com/gui/home/url
Analyze suspicious files and URLs to detect types of malware, automatically share them with the security community

Once again, type in a URL and check the report.

FYI: I’m sure you recognise Google but not VirusTotal. According to Wikipedia, the company was purchased by Google in 2012.

How to get URLs before clicking
All browsers have this functionality: Right click on a link, and you get a pop-up menu. In Firefox, choose “Copy Link Location”, in Chrome, choose “Copy link address”, and in Edge, choose “Copy link”. Instead of clicking on the URL, you have copied the URL to the clipboard. You can paste it into the above two URL check systems.

IM Chat
From time to time, I include links to various things: articles, pictures, and video. Some people who don’t know me refuse to click. I usually preface the sending of any link with this:

FYI: I check all links for malware. I don’t want to infect my own computer.

But I understand their hesitancy. The world can be a dangerous place, and we must be cautious.

However, I also know that I have more familiarity with links and can better judge their legitimacy. I recognise Flickr and YouTube, two sites that crop up frequently in SL profiles, and open them without fear of infection. But if I ran into something I don’t recognise, I can use the above two check systems to get an idea of how safe a URL is.

Good luck. Safe computing. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have to go out to my local pharmacy. I thought to log into Second Life this evening, and I’ve just discovered I’ve run out of condoms.


This won't work but it is funny.


References

Wikipedia: Malvertising
Malvertising (a portmanteau of "malicious advertising") is the use of online advertising to spread malware. It typically involves injecting malicious or malware-laden advertisements into legitimate online advertising networks and webpages. Online advertisements provide a solid platform for spreading malware because significant effort is put into them in order to attract users and sell or advertise the product. Because advertising content can be inserted into high-profile and reputable websites, malvertising provides malefactors an opportunity to push their attacks to web users who might not otherwise see the ads, due to firewalls, more safety precautions, or the like. Malvertising is "attractive to attackers because they 'can be easily spread across a large number of legitimate websites without directly compromising those websites'."

Malvertising is a fairly new concept for spreading malware and is even harder to combat because it can work its way into a webpage and spread through a system unknowingly: "The interesting thing about infections delivered through malvertising is that it does not require any user action (like clicking) to compromise the system and it does not exploit any vulnerabilities on the website or the server it is hosted from... infections delivered through malvertising silently travel through Web page advertisements." It is able to expose millions of users to malware, even the most cautious, and is growing rapidly: "In 2012, it was estimated nearly 10 billion ad impressions were compromised by malvertising." Attackers have a very wide reach and are able to deliver these attacks easily through advertisement networks. Companies and websites have had difficulty diminishing the number of malvertising attacks, which "suggests that this attack vector isn’t likely to disappear soon."


Wikipedia: VirusTotal
VirusTotal is a website created by the Spanish security company Hispasec Sistemas. Launched in June 2004, it was acquired by Google Inc. in September 2012. The company’s ownership switched in January 2018 to Chronicle, a subsidiary of Alphabet Inc.

VirusTotal aggregates many antivirus products and online scan engines to check for viruses that the user’s own antivirus may have missed, or to verify against any false positives. Files up to 550 MB can be uploaded to the website, or sent via email (max. 32MB). Anti-virus software vendors can receive copies of files that were flagged by other scans but passed by their own engine, to help improve their software and, by extension, VirusTotal’s own capability. Users can also scan suspect URLs and search through the VirusTotal dataset. VirusTotal for dynamic analysis of malware uses Cuckoo sandbox. VirusTotal was selected by PC World as one of the best 100 products of 2007.

PC Mag - Oct 22/2019
The Best Antivirus Protection for 2019
Which antivirus should you choose? You have a wealth of options. Kaspersky Anti-Virus and Bitdefender Antivirus Plus routinely take perfect or near-perfect scores from the independent antivirus testing labs. A single subscription for McAfee AntiVirus Plus lets you install protection on all of your Windows, Android, Mac OS, and iOS devices. And its unusual behavior-based detection technology means Webroot SecureAnywhere Antivirus is the tiniest antivirus around. We've named these four Editors' Choice for commercial antivirus, but they're not the only products worth consideration. Read the reviews of our top-rated products, and then make your own decision.

2019-10-24

Tuesday 22 October 2019

Erotic Love


"Erotic love is one of the highest forms of contemplation."
Kenneth Rexroth (1905–1982), American poet, translator and critical essayist




True or false?
"Many women have a deep inner longing to be dominated by a man who’s absolutely obsessed with them." -Unknown




"I long to surrender to my desire for you."
Kneeling Man Embracing a Standing Woman by Gustav Vigeland (1869-1943), Norwegian sculptor




Who we are as men and women: What's the science behind our motivations?

Psychology Today - Aug 22/2013
"What Do Women Really Want?" by Noam Shpancer Ph.D.
"Marta Meana, a researcher at the University of Nevada, has argued provocatively that the organizing principle of female sexuality is the desire to be desired."
...
"Female desire, according to Meana, is activated when a woman feels overwhelmingly desired, not rationally considered. Female erotic literature, including all those shades of gray, is built on this fantasy. Sexual desire in this view does not work according to our expectations and social values. Desire seeks the path of desire, not the path of righteousness. It thrives not on social order but on its negation. This is one reason all religions and societies try to control, contain, limit and re-direct it."
...
"Despite what is commonly believed, then, Meana argues that female sexuality is more self-centered than male’s. Mick Jagger’s lamentations aside, male fantasies focus on giving satisfaction, not on receiving it. Men see themselves in their fantasies bringing the woman to orgasm, not themselves. Women see the man, set aflame by uncontrollable lust for them, bringing them to ecstasy. Men want to excite women. Women want men to excite them. Being desired is the real female orgasm, Meena says."


2019-10-22